he disappeared but after some time he texted me saying 'I'm sorting my thoughts out because this feels brutal and chaotic' which sounded so childish to me. Understanding him 2. I think the act of distancing himself is more painful than you realize and it probably takes extreme will to stay away. I don't think he respects me. Cancer can seem defensive or indifferent, puzzling potential suitors. You have to understand that Scorpios are intense. Their fixed, feminine energy can come off as stubborn and reserved, but don't mistake their often quiet and secretive demeanor for passivity! Secondly, even I am dating a scorpio who sometimes withdraws but who cares , I am going to take it until it reaches my threshold and then i will break it off with him, thirdly , as a leo i am prone to displays of pride and arrogance- the fact that I can acknowledge it and try to be a better person in relationships and not let my Leonine shortcomings define me, so if you are dating a Scorpio who can not control husband baser instincts then please ask him you fuck off , life is too short to run behind weirdos, Fourth of all , I am pretty sure that each of you frustrated girls out here are interesting, beautiful and amazing human beings, remember that when you feel like you are being used. How could he just not think of me at all for 3 weeks, and then randomly text me like nothing was wrong?! But when I speak to him its just short answers. He has never been mean or anything like that. We love each other so much, there is such Trust between us. It could also mean that he never trusted you or himself and never intended to settle down (have a serious relationship). Instead of. He is working independently, so he is working lots, busy with his Music Needs and is living one Hour away from me, living with somebody together. He tells me im the one but when he starts getting tired he gives me confidence and reassurence with words that don't feel like a lie. He told me to not be like that. For example, if a Scorpio starts loving art, that may very easily become his new passion in life. Both of us want to have control in relationship and we end up with fight. Or he "ghosts" and just disappears. From the way you talk to your hand gestures, he will notice everything and take a deep interest in you. He ignored my calls and texts for days and finally when he did hey back to me he said he can't commit to anything.. If he tells you he likes or lives you and then disappears, find someone else! You might not see the arc, but it's there. Anyway, we decided to meet up but it didn't end well; I arrived at our meeting place and he wasn't there so I texted him, but he said that I wasn't there so he went to hang out with a friend. I would wait forever if he asked. On the same note, don't let Scorpio's bad reputation lead you to misjudge someone. I rather move on and look for someone else right away, but he's totally worth it. Scorpio man lives in his own way and does not care about others. Then I explained I do like him but it seemed he made up his mind. I called, text, even went over. He claims it was his fault, mainly due to withdrawing from depression, fear and self loathing. The first thing and one of the best things to remember though, this is how the you may see . I always give him space even when I don't need vis versa. The obvious man to lead it was Le Grange, the only South African who had ever set foot on the South Pole. I am crazy about this guy but if he keeps it up I'm going to have to let him go. Yes, this is a scorpio, who claims to be in a homosexual relationship yet he's this possessive and jealous of me. I hope I helped!! he is soo sweet, and caring and loving and our sex is always great. I seem to be making all the efforts in the relationship . A Scorpio is full of hidden secrets, kept deep within their heart that they're unwilling to reveal to even those they love the most. I don't want to tell him because he may think I'm just trying to get him back it really hurts feeling this way all alone. He seldom wallows in envy or self-pity, and he doesn't happen to think that life owes him a single farthing. We have flirted on and off throughout the last few years but never anything serious because we both have been in relationships. What to Do When Scorpio Man Ignores You? He waited till Wednesday and texted 'Hey' I didn't text back I knew something was wrong and I was upset aswell. There will be times when he's somewhere in between extremes, but it happens less frequently than with other signs. This approach may work for some signs, but on a Gemini man, it will have the opposite of the desired effect. Scorpio is the most emotionally vulnerable sign, yet when they put up their defences, no one can damage them. I didn't take him serious. But now you're older and so confident in his loyalty that you constantly yank on his tail to show your friends how much he loves you. @Sho - their is no possible chance of getting him back. I know they behave negative but see them positive ! our conversation was okay and we decided to meet up after i finished my final examination. This is the only way to defend himself or apologize. I'm dealing with a Scorpio who says he loves me after 2 weeks of knowing him and has literally poured out his heart to me to only stop telling me these things weeks later. Now he's gone. I am the kind of Libra female who craves attention and if I don't hear from my Scorpio for ONE day - I begin to freak out and go back and forth - he loves me, he loves me not. He doesn't care about what you think. Is this the end? During Mom's chemo and ups and downs, he was there for me any time of the day (he lives in Ireland and is 6 hours ahead) and I could call him at any time and he was there. Bottom line is, I am losing my mind and I need help. Good luck all you gals out there. Two weeks after the kiss, we continued to talk. Should i stay or should i go. I had my Life he had his own, all good. On that note we weren't even a couple so I have no idea why he has taken it to heart or what's going on. Well, a couple days ago, he texts me out of the blue "hey wife." For your number 5 reason he withdraws and decides to leave, I don't think its for lack of compassion. 1. They are a little different . He is soon joined by a group that matches their steps and energy with Hafeez. Though last week I text him about a minor accident he was very concerned . My friends think I shouldn't expect a text every day, since he has things to do and so do I. I just guess I'm real needy right now. Such an amazing man and my rock! Make sure he sees that. Hi im a scorpio female and i have this habit of disspearing for a few days when im going through all the above phases. These guys have the most intense eyes in the zodiac. I guess he never was that interested after all. Oh no, this vacation will be somewhere in the mountains where there'll be many hiking trails and places to rest in nature. You can just imagine how much time that saves. He was the absolute gentleman, thoughtful and sweet, taking care of me for everything. 9) He plays the blame game. 10. I hope this isn't the case for anyone, because it says volumes about his lack of compassion for you if he isn't willing to give you closure. If a person born with this sun sign is taking the time to look after you or getting involved with your problems, then you are part of their inner circle. What should I do? But I am telling you.. A Scorpio man in love will want to share his thoughts and feelings with you, and he will be more willing to talk about the relationship. A Scorpio man is done with you when his behaviors begin to change. Unfortunately, this guy tends to throw his anger onto the people he loves most. When a Scorpio feels something, their feelings Run deep and it seems really difficult for them to open up at first. Blame is unhealthy in any relationship. The Highs. Betrayal can consume me as much as love can. The feeling of hurt remains etched in their memory. They have to prove to me and show me that they are who they say they are. I can't have him and no one else will ever interest me again. Tsurugi remembered about flashback that he killed his sister and real tsurugi was pass out when scorpio transform into real tsurugi. He wants all your thoughts to be about him, even if he wont admit to it or consider you 'sticky'he derives deep pleasure form the mere idea that he may be dominating all of your thoughts. We stayed in Contact for the next 3 Years. do I just go along with however he's feeling? Right now he hasn't responded three days so kind of concerned. I felt really shitty after reading his long descriptive text. Scorp men take tend to take it to heart when you go to other people especially guy friends for advice. He is in a situation that he has mixed emotions about and is acting distant until he sorts it out in his heart. Have I lost him for good? After all we have been together for 2 and I a half but he is not receptive to my feelings. I am a pisces. In other words, if you can't tell which of the first four reasons is the reason he has withdrawn, then you really don't know each other well enough for him to play mind games and expect you to sort it out. We had plans to hang out but on the day of he bailed on me and hurt my feelings in doing so. Yes this one drives me Nuts, but i always know he is coming back around. I am preparing to leave her and I have been distancing myself. I really dont know who the ideal sign for a Scorpio is, Well Said.a typical scorpio behavior. Please someone tell me what to do about my Scorpio guy best friend ! She may even be seeing someone else on the side. You may notice the following behaviors in a Scorpio man when he is testing you: He Pulls the Disappearing Act He Asks for Help or a Favor He Becomes Quieter in Conversations He Asks a Lot of Personal Questions He Shares Intimate Details About His Life He Tests Your Reaction to Conflict He Asks About Your Past Relationships He Plays Hard to Get My Mom's last wish was for us to meet. Does liking means close to loving? Just tell him what he has done wrong and you don't want to keep silent with him because of it. He has broken up with me last week . And if you told a certain girl that you like her very much or that she's special, does it mean your'e developing feelings for her already? Due to Scorpio personality traits, he is introspective and independent. But I seriously think I am pregnant and am freaking out. We both have kids. I know he read some of my emails because one of the emails I was asking him to send me my stuff from his place and I got a message from FedEx that he sent my stuff. The are great mind readers some might say. Let a Scorpio man know what he has done or said to upset you. We don't know each other that well, so I don't know if he likes me just for my looks, or he actually takes interest in me. They feel everything! Even feelings of sheer happiness and an unbridled passion are felt immensely by Scorpions. When I was about to dump him he playa mind games - twist the whole thing, I mean I want to dump you and you acting stupid. Like the fall of a paper airplane or (more appropriately, since, ya know- Scorpio) an artillery shell. So I have dated a scorpio several years ago, we reconnected. We are holding back because we want to take in your love and see if ur the right person for us I think but really being a Scorpio is tough. I have a Scorpio issue for sure. When they feel threatened or fear they will be gravely injured, they often retreat. Never put them under pressure , they are so sensetive . Or a few months. It was a little confusing but I don't take what people say to heart. He Gets Jealous Easily. He's angry. He is very obsessive and jealous type of guy. They are direct and purposeful, independent and overall pretty happy. He does not show me his emotions , just during our fights says i care about you , i think about you , do not leave me & etc . I am a venus in scorpio and I can vouch for this. when he shuts down on me and not text me after all I do for him it hurts my feelings and I do talk to him about it but he does not let me know what is going on the reason why he does this. Just in more obvious and aggravating ways! Ummmm we are 50 and 42. This is so true! I have since been on a roller coaster ride and now haven't gotten a text or call for 6 weeks. I have a way with words as being a Gemini and I am willing to sacrifice some of my freedom to be with this Scorpio. Take a look into his full natal chart to gain a more accurate understanding. But if the dog finally turned around and bit you then, would you think, simply because it hadn't done so before, that it came out of nowhere? The drop off in feelings are generally never as sudden as you think, unless there's a serious betrayal. Show her you are passionate and not superficial in your attitude. Knowing that you are doing well makes Scorpio man miss you and want to come back. He finally said "LEAVE ME ALONE, I DID THIS EASY AND CLEAN" Stop calling stop texting. Posted on February 2, the video has amassed 80,000 views. Me and Scorpio make broke up after being together for 2 years. Sort of know if it will work out or not early on and dont want to play games anymore, but can still be attraction. He did not talk to me at all . The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers to this website may receive compensation for some links to products and services on this website. They would tell me they'd see me and try to say hi but I wouldn't notice them. Very true. This is extremely accurate for my male best friend who is a Scorpio! I was going to ask him if I did something wrong, but I held back in order to not look desperate. we do talk about sex, but the difference is, he want to know me deeper. They are passionate creatures who love to communicate. 6) Why do you care? Keep this in mind so that you don't take his behavior personally. He's confused. There is no one to compare with the Scorpio man. 2. how is the best way to respond to text or call after they have been distancing themselves and a little cold. Ive been crazy about a Scorpio since the day we first met. I dont like some things I think or say, be they fact or not. I am the type that gets smothered when a guy is constantly blowing the messages up or calling. Rated all ups!! This year, we finally met in person. Ask him if I'm going to see him again said he will be busy for nest 5 weeks. I honestly thought he was ghosting me. I really liked this hub. They hone in on a project and become very obsessed. Scorpio men are not easy. Hes naturally secretive and very vindictive, dont stand for it and don't miss out waiting on him. This month holds celestial . They will care about you if your part of that inner circle. But my question is will he come back to me? The more clingy and desperate you act, the more likely you are to pull yourself . Then I said I understand , you already made up your mind. I will say he has the best heart and loves with all of it. Avoiding eye contact. Karthik Kashyap from India on July 17, 2012: KrisNick09: I think I may be in situation 3. He replied with the 'take care line' and that's it. I understand that pisces men need their space but if you think he's cheating on you, he probably is. hi, i'm aqua girl, student 23 yr old. violeta_oliveira@yahoo.com.br on December 28, 2016: Hey! Have a life. Discern your partner based on their true character, and let astrology be secondary to your gut instinct! :( scorpions will love u or they will hate u. Libra- I can totally relate to if scorpio man doesn't respond to my texts, I think he's done. So basically breaking up with me. other from the real issue.ALWAYS. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on February 22, 2013: The only advice I can offer is to remind you that a relationship is a two way street. I told him I didnt know because he hurt my feelings and I felt like he was playing games with me. This article is accurate and true to the best of the authors knowledge. If he's pointing fingers for every problem that crops up in your relationship, he's trying to put the responsibility on you so he doesn't have to take accountability himself. I am so glad to hear that everyone is having the same concerns. I should have given up but I still hope because I felt his love for me in his eyes. I go through the same thing when i don't receive a text for 1 day cause it's just such an extreme change from the normal..also don't want to be needy, but sometime i feel like i need to have more self respect, it's not okay to be coldishback and forth with extreme wow he really really loves and wants me to feelings of I really don't know how he feels at all??? They Detest Dishonesty Your Scorpion partner vehemently detests lies. Their hard outer shell seems tough and a bit dark, but it's all to protect the bleeding heart within. Common personality traits and how they manifest in romance, Top reasons why he's off the grid and ignoring your texts, Explanations for his off-and-on behavior and sudden blow-ups, Important tips for cultivating a healthy relationship. As I write this, I see how silly, stupid and ridiculous and wacky I must seem to anyone who reads this. 2. 2023 The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers on this website. He feels burned or embarrassed and has withdrawn to nurse his wounds. When a Scorpio man takes you in completely as in loving you you ultimately become their possession until you betray them. :). He Keeps Secrets From You Scorpios are secretive. He might do the slow fade out, meaning he stops initiating contact and when you reach out to him he takes hours or days to reply. When he gets offended, he will try to go about his usual routine in silence as a coping mechanism. male scorps). Hidden in the tiring and mundane is a chance to transform your prospects in a delightful way. To everyone out there firstly, although I personally love my sunsign and I do think people possess certain core characteristics based on their sunsigns , you have to acknowledge the fact that every individual is complex and not binary ( I.e. It really does sux when you get stung for something so stupid and especially when you've done nothing wrong apart from be asleep.it's extremely hurtful. I am a Cancer girl but a very strong personality as well. I have stood by him knowing how hurt he is. A Scorpio enjoys cinematic and classically romantic dates. I've been dating a new Scorpio for 3 months now that I fell in love with almost right away. My scorpio man sais he adores me etc I know he likes me very much a dis genuine but then he desapears for a few days then he comes back. Scorpio friend who ended up kissing me one night, has been gone for 2 weeks. his job is very demanding and unable to come to see me so I am the one that goes and visits him. I am always in doubt about our relationship longevity. The first SANAI 1 base under construction. Genuine Confusion Scorpio men are emotional guys. I'm dating a Scorpio and I must say I've never seen men without feelings like Scorpio men. We're both show offs that work for each others attention, but sometimes he doesn't even acknowledge me. I told him many times I wasn't a good communicator but he said that's okay. If you're unclear about what ghosting means, it's when someone you've been seeing disappears from your life, completely and suddenly. his actions do not depend on just the fact that he is a Scorpio). The Scorpio man is one of the most emotional signs. It just means his mind is occupied. I haven't acted clingy at all, and I don't plan on doing so at any point. How can u fall in Love with somebody else when u still be living with her. He was really obsessive and then he'd cut me off for days. Tell him so. HubPages is a registered trademark of The Arena Platform, Inc. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. Scorpio Detests Lying If you lie to your Scorpio lover, he will know it. My Mom was diagnosed with Cancer December 4, 2013. I haven't called to see what's happening etc I'm just going to go do my own thing and let him be. we count on a lot of texts and phone calls to keep the relationship going. 2. He talked to my Mom and she adored him. I have determined that a Scorpio's withdrawal usually has one of five causes (though there may be more I have not yet discovered): 1. I can guarantee you one thing: a Scorpio waits. I really wish he would just stop leading me on, wowso helpful to hear all the amazing similaritiesi don't know if 1-5?? 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